Indulge my vulgar curiosity, if you would...

[featherynscale]

I will be the first to admit that my grasp of the rules about socialization, and especially those about romantic/sexual/marital relationships is not very solid. So I was hoping that you lot could give me some sort of feeling for the question in my brain today. The question has to do with how to deal with the ex-whatever of someone who is your friend. If you are friends with someone, and they break it off with a person they are dating/sleeping with/married to/whatever, is it okay for you to pursue their ex? If you are the ex-whatever of someone, are you offended if they date/sleep with/marry/whatever someone else?

I'm not asking this because I'm interested in pursuing anybody's ex. I'm not interested in how I should be relating to the people who are currently hooked up with any of my exes. I'm not passing judgment on anybody's behavior, or inviting others to do so. I'm just curious, and I don't know what people percieve the rules to be on the thing. Please help?

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Comments

Do Leopards, change their spots??

[teross50.livejournal.com]

I would agree, it is almost case by case., I believe, very much in asking or, expressing to the friend, your interest in their partner, Nobody likes going to the party, and the ex showing up with the friend, and being the last to know. Or finding out, “Oh, and he fucked you to”. In close circles there is always going to be a degree of the Soap Opera scenario,[.” Days of our lives”, as it were, oh she is dating him now. Well that's interesting. I to would have to consider, how the relationship ended. If he/she fucked her/him over, leopards, just don't change that many spots.