While we're on the subject of gender and information-gathering...

[featherynscale]

[Poll #650071]

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[kittenpants.livejournal.com]

When writing, I use "s/he". When speaking, I use "they". I usually pause for a second before I say it, wondering how to pronounce "s/he" before I shift into "they". So I took that to mean "s/he" is my preference, since it's my mental default.