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Jul. 19th, 2006 10:39 amSomehow, my glorious week of no commitments in the evenings until social events Friday and Saturday became a meeting on Monday, a class on Tuesday followed by a "working" dinner, and a meeting on Wednesday. Oh well. At least, er, Thursday is gloriously clear?
I told
triadruid this morning that I supposed that if I stopped doing things all the time, then I might die, and it wasn't worth testing it.
In other news, while I was doing last night's class,
kittenpants and
triadruid were browsing the stacks at Borders and reading from a book about things you should do before you die. This sort of thing always eats at me, because I'm not terribly goal-oriented. If I had been in the car scene in Fight Club where everyone had to say what they wanted to do before they died before Tyler Durden would pull the car out of the oncoming traffic, we'd have had a head-on right there. I got nothing. I've done more than I feel like I have any right to have done, and anything else at this point I consider to be icing.
What about you guys? What do you want to do before you die? What, in your opinion, should everybody do at least once in their life?
I told
In other news, while I was doing last night's class,
What about you guys? What do you want to do before you die? What, in your opinion, should everybody do at least once in their life?
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Date: 2006-07-19 04:09 pm (UTC)I could say things about travelling to exotic places or enduring physical challanges, but here's something more grounded.
Recreating masterworks of art with different colored icing on Pillsbury Toaster strudel, photgraphing it, and then eating it (because art should be edible, whenever possible). I have experience recreating Lovecraftian Mythos symbols (Elder signs, etc.), so "Starry Night" would be a challenge.
Other realistic goals would include publishing a comic book/graphic novel and writing a book.
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Date: 2006-07-19 04:32 pm (UTC)I must think of this further.
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Date: 2006-07-19 05:05 pm (UTC)I, like you, feel that I have done so much in just this time I have been alive. There really is nothing more that I would feel necessary to accomplish. There are things that would be nice, but I don't feel I need to do. I could die tomorrow and be complete.
Now, what everyone else should do at least once in their life? That's easy. Have sex. With more than just yourself. Just once. A really good, big, long orgasm should go along with that. Then they can die. Just like in horror flicks. Can't die until you've banged someone.
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Date: 2006-07-19 05:20 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-07-19 05:48 pm (UTC)wink, wink, nudge, nudge
Date: 2006-07-19 06:01 pm (UTC)Re: wink, wink, nudge, nudge
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Date: 2006-07-19 08:15 pm (UTC)I suppose there's a decent number of things that I'd like to do, but there's nothing in particular that I'd say "Oh, no, I can't believe I died without doing that!" And it's not that I've already done everything that's absolutely necessary, either -- I've done a lot of interesting things, but nothing that I thought I had to do before I died.
As for what people ought to do, I think everyone ought to spend at least a month in a place which is utterly foreign -- dissimilar culture, limited communication (at least at first -- you can learn the language while you're there), etc. This time should not be in any way affiliated with the military or security forces. I've noticed that my friends who go to other countries toting guns or as family of people toting guns have significantly more negative experiences than the people who go as scholars or even just tourists. This should happen in late adolescence or early adulthood, and preferably on one's own.
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Date: 2006-07-19 08:41 pm (UTC)I want to see my kids grown up and living happy lives.
What, in your opinion, should everybody do at least once in their life?
That one is tougher. I'm usually willing to let people live their lives as they see fit, as long as they are willing to return the favor.
I guess my best response would be that everyone, at some point, needs to step out of their comfort zone willingly (as opposed to being pushed out) to try something new.
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Date: 2006-07-19 09:39 pm (UTC)A) Anything I say here can will be held against me in a court of law (or more likely a civil court) ... but at this point in my life, this question becomes more "Who do I want to do before I die?" and the list is fairly long as it includes several people who need to be killed (in one sense of "to do" someone) and a few more that I'd like "to do" in another sense.
*sigh*
So much for high-mindedness, eh?
Q) What should everybody do at least once in their life?
A) Have the absolute trust of another person ... it's both chilling and empowering at the same time. So far, I've seen this only rarely from somebody who was not a child. It seems as we grow old and disillusioned, we value the trust others place in us more and more yet find it far more difficult to give.
What do I want to do before I die?
Date: 2006-07-20 12:53 am (UTC)Simple things,
Date: 2006-07-20 01:16 am (UTC)Go to Dolphin Island as well.
be debt free again.
see both boys grown, and living well on their own.
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Date: 2006-07-20 01:39 am (UTC)Re: wink, wink, nudge, nudge
Date: 2006-07-20 01:57 am (UTC)Ditto that, love...
Date: 2006-07-20 04:29 am (UTC)My immediate goal is to stop being so impatient to create new icons that I do it here with paint rather than wait 'till I get home & get to use The Gimp.
School is right around the corner and between getting licensed and possibly getting my teeth fixed I think I'll be able to pull off a lovely 'Himbo' routine in the M.T. field.
More importantly I want to see my kids happy and (relatively speaking) successful.
For other folks? Get out & meet people from different cultures. That could mean getting to a different side of town or a different side of the planet depending on your resources. You don't have to like them, just look for the humanity that binds us together before being too judgmental.
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Date: 2006-07-20 01:06 pm (UTC)As for everyone? I guess I'd leave that up to the desires of each person.
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Date: 2006-07-20 05:18 pm (UTC)Other than that, I got nothing. People are too different, yano?
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Date: 2006-07-20 08:26 pm (UTC)Overall, I Think Everyone Should At Least Develope Some Kind Of Drive To Better Themselves, To 'Do More'. However, If You Don't Have that Drive, You Won't Care About A List Like This, And If You Do Have That Drive, You're Already Past That, So It's Kinda A Moot Point.