I was just talking to someone at work about just this sort of thing. I told her that I knew there were some people here who think I am just *too weird* to talk to or have anything to do with. I told her that I am here to do a job and that if I make friends or don't make friends with people there it wasn't my first priority. If they like me enough to talk to me great, if they don't, as long as I can still work with them then great. I was told my hair was too wild (You know me and my spikes) and I think several of them here would not know what to do with themselves if they new I was pagan. But I told her that I am not going to be someone I am not, just for these people. It's not worth it. I will be kind, and I will be decent but I will not be *not me* just so they can feel better.
I'm glad you stuck up for yourself. If you are kind and decent and they can't get past your hair or your religion... well, who'd want friend like that, anyway?
Pretty much what I think. As long as they do not make the working environment difficult *because* of such things, I don't really care much what anyone here thinks of me, except maybe my boss. I have suspect that she may *know* but not *ask* certin things but because I have proven myself "invaluable" (and I quote) over the past few months, I think she is able to look past all that...
How very noble of her! lol Wouldn't that be like if Phil Jackson said something like "I don't like black people but I tolerated Shaq because he helped us win?" (Before anyone jumps on me, no he never said anything like that to my knowledge.)
ROFLMAO. You have a lot of patience to put up with that. Keep being the same kind and respectful person you are and pay them no mind... I hope they don't make the environment miserable for you.
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Date: 2005-10-21 05:39 pm (UTC)Wow... that was kinda ranty, huh?
good for you
Date: 2005-10-21 06:09 pm (UTC)Re: good for you
Date: 2005-10-21 07:24 pm (UTC)Re: good for you
Date: 2005-10-21 07:47 pm (UTC)ROFLMAO. You have a lot of patience to put up with that. Keep being the same kind and respectful person you are and pay them no mind... I hope they don't make the environment miserable for you.